Healing self-harming tendency with completion

By on March 4, 2017   /   Life Solutions  

I am writing this article with a heavy heart because I am seeing an increase in self-harming tendency or pattern among teenagers and young adults.

This pattern of self-harming has its root in the childhood when certain wrong cognitions started to form during the tender age due to certain incidents which affected their life. Many times I’ve seen it was due to parents’ incompletions which triggered the wrong cognitions in these children. They form the wrong cognitions such as “I shouldn’t be born”, “I am not loved”, “I am not worthy”, “I am the problem”.

The first case I worked with was a lady with a very traumatic childhood experience infused with self-doubt, fear, verbal abuse and hatred. That was the way the child formed the cognitions about herself. For a long time, she suffered with this self-doubt, self-hatred and self-denial pattern and she had gone to see psychologist and psychiatrist, she was put on medication but she was not able to get out of it. It was only after several sessions of completion that she was able to shift the very cognitions.

According to Paramahamsa Nithyananda (fondly known as Swamiji) he said that “The biggest human suffering is self-doubt, self-denial, self-hatred (SDHD in short). If I have to organize it one by one, it is – self-doubt, self-hatred, self-denial. First it starts as self-doubt, follows as self-hatred, becomes fruit in self-denial. That is the way, step by step, it reaches.”

He went on to explain that only after this self-doubt comes, God becomes human. The moment self-doubt enters, God became man, macrocosm becomes microcosm, Paramatma (Cosmic Soul) becomes Jivatma (Individual soul). The first Maya (illusions and delusion), the origin of the Maya is self-doubt. The biggest liberation you will experience on planet Earth is being liberated from self-doubt, self-denial and self-hatred. Completion with self-doubt, self-denial and self-hatred will be the biggest, most powerful liberation you will experience.

Swamiji also instructed his disciples that every child should be taught to complete with all these three patterns, because these three patterns do not start in this birth, they are inherited from the past birth! Every child should be taught to complete with the self-doubt, self-hatred and self-denial. If you want to hate something, hate self-hatred. If you want to doubt something, doubt self-doubt. If you want to deny something in your life, deny self-denial.

All hatred you have with others is hatred which is there in you about you. All doubt you have about others is nothing but the doubt you have in you. All the denial you have about others is nothing but the denial you have about you inside. Self-hatred naturally creates hatred about you everywhere. Self-doubt naturally creates doubt about others in you, and in others about you. Self-denial naturally makes you deny others, and others deny you. That is the source of all suffering, that is the source of all bad things. Self-Destruction is what is “giving up on yourself and giving up on others”. Whenever SDHD patterns come up, giving up on yourself is Self-Destruction.

The good news is SDHD can be completed. The science of Poornathva, science of Completion revived by Swamiji is the most sacred secret, the most powerful Raja Vidya (Royal Sacred Knowledge) and Royal Sacred Secret. The truth is life starts only when you are complete, when you are established in the space of completion. The moment you complete with these three inside you, suddenly you will see the world will be different for you! Every human-being should be taught the science of completing with their SDHD. When you start working on your self-doubt, self-hatred and self-denial, so much of Kundalini energy (inner potential energy) gets awakened, that energy automatically will create what you want, that energy will automatically liberate you, lead you to ultimate enlightenment.

In essence, complete with the 3 patterns of SDHD, you will have a great life in front of you. You will have a great possibility in front of you. All the great truths you will be able to grasp in your life and be able to live a life of Jeevan Mukti (liberation). Namaste 😀

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Understanding 3 types of Karma

By on February 23, 2017   /   Life Solutions  

What is karma?

According to a living Avatar, Paramahamsa Nithyananda (fondly known as Swamiji), he said that Karma is anything which is left inside us incomplete, asking us for attention, for completion, and forcing us to go through that again and again. He also added that karma is nothing but the incomplete patterns brought from previous births as well as the new patterns accumulated from this birth.

Basically, there are three kinds of karmas. First, the Prarabdha is the karmas you brought with you to exhaust in this life. Second is Agamya which is the karmas you accumulated in this life. Lastly, Sanchita is the karmas you have saved for janmas (lifetimes). You cannot do anything with Sanchita karma, Sanchita can be melted or burnt only by an enlightened master or Guru working directly on it. You can work on first 2 karmas: Agamya and Prarabdha. Prarabdha karma is more like thoughts, engrams and patterns. Agamya karma is more like muscle-memory and bio-memory, which have become a part of you. Agamya karma itself has two parts – one is doing the actions in unawareness which bring suffering, and second is the pattern of doing such actions continuously and accumulating more Agamya, knowing it brings suffering.

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Reinvent Yourself with Rudhra

By on February 17, 2017   /   My personal journey  

This January, I started picking up chanting of Sri Rudhram which is an ancient Vedic text and a powerful hymn in praise of Rudhra (the rejuvenation dimension of Sadashiva). Sadashiva represents the consciousness within everything – the pure essence within all, who is responsible for these 5 roles – creation (Satyojata), sustenance (Tatpurusha), rejuvenation (Aghora), delusion (Vamadeva) and liberation (Ishana). Sadashiva is referred to in the Hindu scriptures as Sat Chit Ananda: truth, consciousness and bliss. The truth from Vedic scripture states that– Sadashivoham (I am Sadashiva), we are all the embodiment of the pure consciousness. The more I soak myself into this Rudhra energy, the more I discover it is such a powerful energy within all of us that we need to awaken.

There are 2 aspects of Rudhra. First of all, it is the energy which is responsible for your ability to reinvent yourself. The second aspect of Rudhra is the ability to go on removing the inauthenticity gathering around you. I’ve seen many people who are so stuck in their cosy life that there are so much resistance to change due to fear and laziness. Some people have even fallen in the state of depression and living in self-destruction. Some people just do touch-ups or little maintenance, but they fail to realise that touch-ups will never solve the root of the issues.

The Rudhra dimension of life had helped me to make many fundamental shifts in my life. For example, in 2009, I took a bold jump out of the rat race and reinvented my career by aligning it with my purpose of birth. If I had not made this move, I wouldn’t be living life at my terms with so much fulfilment and freedom.

But the initial 3 years of my reinvention, I must say that it was not at all smooth-sailing. I was losing a lot of money and the priority of my business partner was not aligned. Things were not working out the way I planned it. I was not able to manifest the reality I wanted in my life. I started asking the fundamental questions without judgment, assumptions and conclusions. This pure questioning of fundamental questions led me to a better understanding the problems from the core such as my own inauthenticity and blind spots. When we are able to solve the problems from the core, all the solutions that come out of the core will be eternal. With clarity of the real issues, I was able to activate the energy of Rudra with responsibility in destroying what needed to be removed and made adjustments to rejuvenate in the business again. In one year, I was back in the black on the profit and loss statement.

I remembered My Guru, Paramahamsa Nithyananda (fondly known as Swamiji) once said that “It’s only when you start seeking the truth; your spiritual journey starts. Until then everything you do can be considered good entertainment. Only when you ask fundamental questions, will you build a powerful foundation for the divine expression.” This is absolute powerful truth that every human being should catch! My quest for the truth led me to reinvent myself.

Now, I am in another transitionary phase after 4 years of running the business. The same Rudhra energy in me is guiding me to stretch myself to next phase of expansion with authenticity. Last year, I expanded my presence into 2 more social media – Instagram and my own YouTube channel from the inspiration by Swamiji.  After I returned from India in January, I created another new possibility in my business – coaching budding spiritual entrepreneurs to be their own boss using the spiritual teaching I learned from Swamiji, the way it had enriched me and my life. I also took up more responsibilities in Swamiji’s sangha (spiritual community) to revive the Vedic education system – Gurukul. I know that it is only by Guru’s grace, the Rudhra energy in me is awakened for expansion because expansion is life. Contraction is death!

In essence, your ability to reinvent yourself is Rudhra. The moment you awaken this energy, life becomes a constant expansion and fulfilment, and more expansion and more fulfilment. Namaste 😀

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