Over the last one month, I have been working with several people through the process of healing their past pain and violence done to them by the unconscious parents and society. See, when the human beings live in the unconscious state of verbal abuse, physical violence and sexual assault, they inflict tremendous fear and pain to the children and destroy their very innocence space, trust and connection with life. That gives birth to the mind and their life is literally destroyed due to the psychological disturbances and the souls stop growing unless they complete with this hangover. I’ve seen many adults grew up feeling hurt by their parents for what they had done to them and this incompletion with parents caused them to lose confidence in themselves, in life and some even developed the patterns of anger, violence and self-harming in their life. This requires tremendous healing at the bio memory level of the individuals.
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I’ve been helping people to do completion of their root patterns and I can say that 95% of the root patterns are related to the root incidents involving their parents.
You may ask – what is root pattern?
According to Swamiji, a living Avatar, His Divine Holiness Paramahamsa Nithyananda, he defines root pattern as the first attack of any strong emotion happening in you and imbalancing your whole cognition, giving birth to your mind, the pattern you developed from that moment, is called ‘root-pattern’. It can be anything as simple as your mother did not give you the cake, instead she gave it to your brother or as traumatic as a physical abuse! It does not matter the actual incident, what really matters is the moment powerlessness takes over you for the first time in your life, and your cognition is imbalanced, the mind is born, the pattern which you develop at that time is “root-pattern”. That is the root on which the mind is born. The moment the root-pattern is born, our life is destroyed and our growth is stopped! Only when we complete with our root-pattern, we begin to come back to life again, life starts happening in us. Till we understand our root-pattern and complete with it, we cannot be peaceful anywhere in the world even in the most luxurious serene beach resort. A disturbed inner space caused by the root pattern will constantly carry the wounds and smell of this incompletion.
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